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Tuesday, March 21, 2006

Disable or Differently able?

I’ve read a lot of magazines over the past few months (thanks to my interviews!). When I thought about them, there was only one article that came to my mind instantaneously.. I’ll give a briefing on that article which was published in ‘The Week’ (March 19)..
It is about Joby Mathew who became the first Indian to win World Arm-Wrestling Championship.If that alone is a great achievement-read on.. Joby’s is a saga of great determination to overcome his congenital disability- his legs are ONLY HALF A FOOT LONG.He says- “Being differently able does not mean you are disable.”
This article touched me.I mean this guy actually overcame his disability mentally and look at what he has achieved, something that even normal people could not. He did not consider it as his weakness and has showed great determination. I can never imagine myself doing anything like this. (I sit and crib about a hand pain or leg pain than do something constructive in that time). One look at his photo is enough to inspire you.(I scanned a lot to post his photo on the blog,maybe sometime later).
Whenever I crib about something that doesn’t go my way, a close friend of mine always asks me to look at the people around me (in a more broad sense) and then I’ll see that compared to the people who live on roads with no food to eat, we are all far better off and blessed.I never took his words seriously but just remembered while writing this!
I think another aspect that comes to light is about these group of ‘differently able’ people. What they need is not our sympathy but more of our encouragment. Joby says,” The real villain in my life is not my disability but poverty” .So one more wish added in my list of “Things to do in life” other than making it big is to help these people, encourage them and give them financial support.
That also brings me to the movie ‘Iqbal’ (LOVE THAT MOVIE!). Even in that movie Iqbal is shown as a strong character who is not dependent much on anybody and encouragement did wonders for him. I really wish I get an opportunity to help some differently able person sometime in life.(the word ‘disable’ doesn’t exist in my vocabulary now, and if you notice that the word ‘differently able’ has some sense of respect, something that they deserve).

8 Comments:

  • At 3:59 PM, Blogger Harika Korukonda said…

    mmmm ur blog wud definetly make ppl think!!...its very much true tht we never actually realize hw lucky we r when compared to lot many.....v always keep quibblin over petty things...definetely v hav to learn a lesson from ppl like joby mathew.....n realize the fact tht a bit of encouragement to them can do MIRACLES!!!!

     
  • At 4:33 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Divs,

    Just read your blog. Interesting piece and definitely agree that people certainly don't take into account that other people are worse off than them.

    ....However it is very true that being 'differently abled' does introduce an element of difficulty or an obstacle in achieving what you want to do. Is it harder to be born with no legs and going on to win an arm wrestling contest or to be born in perfect health and to lose your limbs in an accident and to then struggle to do everything that you once took for granted. In my opinion it takes greater strength of will to recover from a loss.

    People are different and want different things out of life. Winning an arm wrestling contest when you have no legs is by no means an inconsiderable feat. But what about Stephen Hawking who is completely immobilized and can only speak with a computer but is considered one of the premier physicists in the world.

    Some people are born with disabilities and some acquire them through accidents or disease. Ignoring that they are disabled does a disservice to them I think.

    We should recognise that their faculties are construed and work to achieve the capability to alieve those difficulties. Wouldnt a person without legs want the use of prosthetic limbs? Wouldnt a person born blind want to have eyes? They arent less human but we cant pretend that they aren't suffering or that they don't have the same priveleges that we do.

    To me the only the thing worth admiring is sheer will. How hard is it for someone to do something? Do they keep striving and do it or do they give up? That according to me is a better measure of human achievement.

    Arm Wrestling != Nobel Prize

     
  • At 11:06 PM, Blogger Divya Rao said…

    @Aditya:now ur comment has got me thinking again:( I do agree that will power has to be appreciated,ppl's loss in an accident and the people born 'differently able' kinds both ways is sad-why differentiate it and say which is worse?and if you dont have legs-you immediately wont think of doing something else,practically..so lets appreciate the guy:)

     
  • At 7:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    hey.. I just read ur blog.. its gr8 and inspiring. I to accept ur point that encouragement is the secret for anyone's success and we have to help ppl around us and make a meaning to our life.
    However a nice one and hope so u write more.

     
  • At 10:21 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Didn't Iqbal try to kill that guy in that movie by bowling a bouncer?? Why is he your idol?

     
  • At 10:49 PM, Blogger Divya Rao said…

    @Aditya-IQBAL did lots of other things in the movie which can be appreciated..:) common don't be so hearless:))

     
  • At 1:13 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Well div i really appreciate ur blog on this guy..its nice to c that ppl r fullfilling their dreams being differntly able too ..thinking of perfectly healthy ppl like us how much did v achieve till now...think bout this

     
  • At 3:42 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    nice one divya!!! its truely motivating...!!! kudos to all those differently able people....we ve got to learn lots frm them. keep up the good work.;-)

     

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